Hadis

‘Amr ibn al-’Aas said, "I’m surprised at a man who flees from the Qadr (Decree) when it is only going to befall him, and a man who sees the dust in his brother’s eye while he is oblivious to the chunk that is in his. And I am amazed at a man who removes grudges and malice from others but leaves it within himself. I have never regretted anything and then blamed myself for regretting it, andI have never shared my secrets with someone and then criticized him for spreading it – how can I criticize him when it has become too much for him to conceal?"/