Monday, February 3, 2014

குதிகால், பாதம், கெண்டைக்கால், மூட்டு, தொடை ஆகிய இடங்களில் ஏற்படும் வலியைப் போக்கும் திறமை பெற்றது வெற்றிலை நெல்லி ரசம்.

குதிகால், பாதம், கெண்டைக்கால், மூட்டு, தொடை ஆகிய இடங்களில் ஏற்படும்
வலியைப் போக்கும் திறமை பெற்றது வெற்றிலை நெல்லி ரசம்.
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தேவையான பொருட்கள்*:முழுநெல்லிக்காய் 10, வெற்றிலை 20, கொத்தமல்லி இலை,
கறிவேப்பிலை தலா ஒரு கைப்பிடி, காய்ந்த மிளகாய் 4, பூண்டு 6 பல், வால்
மிளகு, சீரகம் தலா ஒரு டீஸ்பூன், மஞ்சள் தூள் அரை டீஸ்பூன், நல்லெண்ணெய்
2 டீஸ்பூன், உப்பு தேவைக்கேற்ப.
*செய்முறை*: நெல்லிக்காயை விதை நீக்கி சாறு எடுக்கவும். கறிவேப்பிலை,
கொத்தமல்லி இலை, வெற்றிலை மூன்றையும் பொடியாக நறுக்கிக்கொள்ளவும். வெறும்
சட்டியில் காய்ந்த மிளகாயை கிள்ளி போட்டு, பொடியாக நறுக்கிய பூண்டு,
ஒன்றிரண்டாகத் தட்டிய வால்மிளகு, சீரகம் ஆகியவற்றை போட்டு இளம் சிவப்பாக
வறுக்கவும். பின்னர், பொடியாக நறுக்கிய கறிவேப்பிலை, வெற்றிலை,
கொத்தமல்லி இலையை அதில் போட்டு, மஞ்சள் தூள் சேர்த்து வதக்கவும்.
நன்றாக வதங்கியதும் விழுதாக அரைத்துக்கொள்ளவும். ஒரு சட்டியில் சிறிது
எண்ணெய் ஊற்றி, அரைத்து வைத்துள்ள விழுதைப் போட்டு வதக்கவும். அதில்
நெல்லிக்காய் சாறு, தேவையான அளவு தண்ணீர் சேர்த்து கொதிக்க வைக்கவும்.
அடுப்பை மிதமாக எரியவிடவும். கொதிக்கும் பக்குவம் வந்ததும், தேவையான அளவு
உப்பு சேர்த்து கொதிக்கவிடாமல் கீழே இறக்கவும்.
இந்த நெல்லி ரசத்தை குடிப்பதன் மூலம் குதிகால் வலியை எளிதில்
குறைப்பதோடு, உயர் ரத்த அழுத்தம் உள்ளவர்களுக்கும் இதயநோயாளிகளுக்கும்
ஏற்ற உணவாக அமைகிறது. எலும்பு புற்றுநோய் ஏற்படாமல் தடுக்கும் ஆற்றல்
இதற்கு உண்டு என்பது குறிப்பிடத்தக்கது.Heel, ankle, calf, knee, thigh
pain effectively in the soup Nelly's success.

Fathwa, - Her husband rejects his daughter to be traced back to him



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Question
I have known my husband five years and we have been married four. After two years of marriage in the US he went home to Tunisia. The US would not let him return for ten years because of overstay of visa. I went to Tunisia and fought for his return. In this period I became pregnant. It took 15 months of hard work but in short his case was approved. He returned and stayed without work for 6 months and had work for 1 and a half months and left. Now he is saying our daughter Khadeejah is not his daughter and he has even taken his last name from her. He will not take a test to prove that she is his and he will not help me in anyway with her. I am Muslim and have only been for three years. I have much to learn. But I would have never thought that a Muslim man would do this. But he says he is standing behind Islam in his choice. Where would I find this in the Quran? I have read he must bring four witnesses. In the Islamic way what can I do? I already know what I can do here in the western world. But I am looking for the way of Islam.
Answer
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammadis His slave and Messenger.
First of all, it should be noted that in principle a Muslim is innocent and it is not permissible to accuse him/her of a dishonour ]with something immoral[ without evidence, especially in matters of dignity, and mainly between the husband and his wife. Allaah Says )what means(: }O you who have believed, avoid much ]negative[ assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin.{]Quran 49:12[. If a man accuses his wife of having committed adultery, then he should bring four witnesses for his claim, orthey should perform Li'aan )which is when each of them makes an oath he is truthful in his claim and then asks Allaah to curse the one who is lying( otherwise, he should be whipped for accusing a chaste woman of committing adultery.
If a married woman is pregnant and gave birth to a child, the child is traced back to her husband and it is not permissible for him to deny the child from his lineage, and he is not permitted to do so except if he performs Li'aan with his wife in which case the child will be traced back to her. It is confirmed that the Prophetsaid:"The baby belongs to the owner of the bed )i.e. the husband(."]Al-Bukhaari and Muslim[ Therefore, it is an obligation to advise this husband, if it is confirmed that he is accusing you of adultery, as he should not accuse you of having committed adultery without evidence, or reject his daughter to be traced back to him. He should be reminded about the religious view on this matter as we discussed. If he still persists on accusing you of adultery, and refuses to accept the daughter as his, then you may take the matter to an Islamic court or to an institution which usually attends to personal matters in non-Muslim countries like Islamic centres and the like.
It should be noted that it is not permissible to resort to man-made laws )i.e. civil courts( without a necessity. Also, refusing lineage is not decided by sperm test, as in principle the family lineage is confirmed, and the evidence is the above narration in which the Prophetsaid:"The baby belongs to the owner of the bed."So, this principle should not be neglected because of a suspicion which is subject to many deficiencies. For more benefit, please refer to Fatwa 88510.
Finally, we advise you to be patient and wise, while invoking Allaah to relieve your grief and make a way out to your difficulty. You should know that Allaah will be with you if you are really wronged, and He will make the truth overcome. Furthermore, you should know that Islam protects your rightsmore than any other religion or law, and Islam is disowns the behaviour of this man, if he is as you mentioned.
Allaah Knows best.



















- PUBLISHERNajimudeeN M

Fathwa, - Situations that make a wife forbidden for her husband



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Question
When a girl )wife( become maharam or haaraam for her husband?
Answer
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammadis His slave and Messenger.
In principle, a husband and wife remain married and a wife does not become forbidden for her husband unless something which entails a separation between them takes place such as divorce, orLi’aan.Li’aan, which is when both spouses make an oath that he/she is truthful in his/her claim and then invoke the curse of Allaah on the one who is lying. This takes place when the husband accuses his wife with adultery, and is done in front of the ruler or the judge. By invoking this curse on each other, the wife becomes permanently forbidden for her husband.
Similarly, Thihaar, which is the saying of the husband to his wife "You are like my mother to me", meaning that ''You are forbidden upon me exactly like my mother'' then his wife becomes temporary forbidden until he expiates his sin in accordance with the saying of Allaah )which means(: }And those who make unlawful to them )their wives( )by Thihaar( and wish to free themselves from what they uttered, )the penalty( in that case )is( the freeing of a slave before they touch each other. That is an admonition to you )so that you may not return to such an ill thing(. And Allaah is All-Aware of what you do. And he who finds not )the money for freeing a slave( must fast two successive months before they both touch each other. And for him who is unable to do so, he should feed sixty of poor people.{]Quran 58:3[.
Additionally, it should be noted that a husband may be forbidden from having sexual intercourse with his wife while she is still considered his wife, for instance, when she is in menses or in post partum bleeding, as Allaah Says )what means(: }They ask you concerning menstruation. Say: that is an Adha )a harmful thing for a husband to have a sexual intercourse with his wife while she is having her menses(, therefore keep away from women during menses and go not unto them till they have purified )from menses and have taken a bath(. And when they have purified themselves, then go in unto them as Allaah has ordained for you )go in unto them in any manner as long as it is in their vagina(.{]Quran 2: 222[.
To conclude, it should be noted that if the divorce is revocable, like the first or second divorce, then it is permissible for the husband to go back his wife as long as she is in her waiting period, but if her waiting period finished, he can re-marry her but with a new marriage contract. However, if it is the third divorce, then she becomes forbidden for him until she marries another man who divorces her after consummating the marriage with her. Consequently, her first husband may re-marry her ]with a new contract and a new dowry[, after she observes the waiting period of her divorce from her second husband.
Allaah Knows best.




















- PUBLISHERNajimudeeN M

Fathwa, - Said to his wife ‘Has anybody touched you before our marriage?'



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Question
Assalam u alaikum Dear Sir, If a husband said to his wife in anger "have anybody before our marriage touch you". Will this sentence have any impact / effect on the Nikkah. Allah hafiz
Answer
All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad, is His slave and Messenger.
That expression does not affect the marriage contract whether the husband said it when he was angry or while in normal state. However, it is not permissible for a husband to ask his wife this question, and it is not permissible for her to inform him about it )the truth(, even if she really had committed this sin because it is an obligation on a Muslim to conceal himself/herself if he/she had committed one.
Speaking about a sin which someone had committed is considered another sin.
Allaah Knows best.





















- PUBLISHERNajimudeeN M