Friday, May 4, 2012

from boredom to having good clean fun

"I changed from worrying to praying; from complaining to problem
solving; from boredom to having good clean fun; from a state of
darkness to one of light; from selfish love to love of self and
others; from independence to interdependence ; from winning or losing
to learning, and growing; from telling to asking; frombeing aggressive
to being assertive; from being reactive to being proactive!" - Hanan K
Bilal
:->

Just when they had nearly finished their project, a big wave came along and knocked it down,

I was sitting on a beach one summer day, watchingtwo children, a boy
and a girl, playing in the sand. They were hard at work building an
elaborate sandcastle by the water's edge with gates and towers and
moats and internal passages. Just when they had nearly finished their
project, a big wave came along and knocked it down, reducing it to a
heap of wet sand.
I expected the children to burst into tears, devastatedby what had
happened to all their hard work. But they surprised me. Instead, they
ran up the shore awayfrom the water, laughing and holding hands, and
sat down to build another castle.
I realized that they had taught me an important lesson. All the things
in our lives, all the complicated structures we spend so much time and
energy creating, are built on sand.
♥ :Only our relationships toother people endure. Sooner or later, the
wave will come along and knock down what we have worked so hard to
build up. When that happens, only the person who has somebody's hand
to hold will be able to laugh.♥♥ —
:->

‘For the Sake of Allah Alone’ – Is it really?

Ibn Taymiyyah said:
حكي أن أبا حامد الغزالي بلغه أنمن أخلص لله أربعين يوما تفجرت ينابيع
الحكمة من قلبه على لسانه
قال: فأخلصت أربعين يوما فلم يتفجر شيء فذكرت ذلك لبعض العارفين فقال لي:
إنك إنما أخلصت للحكمة ولم تخلص لله تعالى
"… News reached Abu Hamid al-Ghazali that whoever proves sincere to
Allah for forty days, wisdom springs from his heart and is established
upon his tongue.
He (al-Ghazali) said, 'So I became sincere to Allah for forty days but
nothing happened so I mentioned this to a righteous person and he said
to me, 'You were not sincere for the sake of Allah, rather you were
sincere for the sake ofattaining wisdom."
Ibn Taymiyyah then says:
وذلك لأن الإنسان قد يكون مقصودهنيل العلم والحكمة أو نيل المكاشفات
والتأثيرات أو نيل تعظيم الناس له ومدحهم إياه أو غير ذلك من المطالب وقد
عرف أن ذلك يحصل بالإخلاص لله وإرادة وجهه, فإذا قصد أن يطلب ذلك
بالإخلاص لله وإرادة وجهه كان متناقضا, لأن من أراد شيئا لغيره فالثاني
هو المراد المقصود بذاته, والأول يراد لكونه وسيلة إليه
فإذا قصد أن يخلص لله ليصير عالما أو عارفا أو ذا حكمة أو صاحب مكاشفات
وتصرفات ونحو ذلك, فهو هنا لم يرد الله بل جعل الله وسيلة له إلى ذلك
المطلوب الأدنى
"And that is because a person's intention becomes(solely) the
attainment of knowledge or wisdom, or to seek out hidden matters,or to
gain popularity with the people and gain their praise etc. He knows
that he can only achieve all thatby being sincere to Allah and seeking
His Face. So if he seeks these things (praise, gaining knowledgeetc)
by the token of sincerity to Allah and seeking His Face, then such a
person contradicts himself because whoever seeks something (e.g. being
sincere to Allah) for the sake of something else (e.g. gain
understanding/knowledge), then the latter becomes his real goal and
the first is just a means to that .
So if a person intends to besincere to Allah so that he may become a
scholar, or pious, or one endowed with wisdom, or one who discovers
hidden realities etc, then such a person does not intend Allah, rather
he has made Allah a means for him to gain that inferior matter…"
- From the book درء تعارض المنقول مع صريح المعقول by IbnTaymiyyah
(rahimahullah).
- Incredible. It's such a subtle difference in intention (although not
always blameworthy) but it really makes one appreciate and realise the
reasons why the Prophet (sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam) feared Riyaa'
for this Ummah so much. Ibn Taymiyyah's statement above is not really
rebuking people who take such a route, but it's highlighting the great
difference between doing something for the Sake of Allah Alone and
doing it in order to attain something specific (even though it may be
praiseworthy and permissible). This difference is what brings out the
true Mukhliseen (sincere) from the Salihin (righteous).
:->

‘Alqamah ibn Qays (rahimahullah) summed it up in his final advice to his son

Allah Ta'ala said,
"… And do not obey one whose heart We have made heedless of Our
remembrance and who follows his desire and whose affair is ever [in]
neglect." [al-Kahf: 28]
As for good character, then 'Alqamah ibn Qays (rahimahullah) summed it
up in his final advice to his son as he was on his deathbed:
"O my son, if you ever feel the need to befriend and accompany men,
then accompany the one who protects you when you help him, adorns you
if you walk with him, and supplies you when your provisions run out.
Accompany the one who when you stretch forth your hands in goodness ,
he stretches his hand too, ifhe sees merit from you, he remembers it,
and if he sees bad from you, he remedies it. Accompany the one who
gives you when you ask , who steps up when you are silent, and who
consoles you when calamity overtakes you. Accompany the one who
believes you when you speak , entrusts you when you engage in work ,
and if you fall out, he prefers you to the fallout."
-

Allah Prepared the Earth for Us

"As the pregnant mother excitedly prepares the cradle for the arrival
of her new baby, Allah also prepared the earth for us before He sent
Adam and Hawaa. He set all in place for us: the earth as a soft bed,
the heavens as a canopy, the rain, the fruits, the stars, even
companionsand love. He (SWT) gave us everything we need to live and
fulfill our needs. It's truly amazing."

The Prophet (sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam) said, “A person is upon the Deen of his friend, so let each of you look to whom you befriend.” [Abu Dawud, 4833]

As-salamu `alaykum wa rahmatullah A chapter I took from one of my
books… very insightful. "… Know that not everyone is suited to be your
friend. The Prophet (sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam) said, "A person is
upon the Deen of his friend, so let each of you look to whom you
befriend." [Abu Dawud, 4833]

"Be people who are constantly reviving their hearts, wearing shabby garments, lights that illuminate the darkness, unknown to those on earthyet known to the inhabitants of the heavens." —’Abdullah ibn Mas‘ūd (a Sahabi)[d. 32H]

"Be people who are constantly reviving their hearts, wearing shabby
garments, lights that illuminate the darkness, unknown to those on
earthyet known to the inhabitants of the heavens."
—'Abdullah ibn Mas'ūd (a Sahabi)[d. 32H]
We must constantly revive our hearts, because we go through periods
when we are weak, lazy in our salat, feeling disconnected from
Allah... But the heart is fertile soil. It can easily be revived with
the aid of the Quran, salat, dua' and dhikr.
You don't literally have to wear shabby garments, butibn Masud (ra) is
saying that the best deeds are those done quietly, privately, for the
sake of Allah alone. You serve as a light in this dunya, making lives
better, helping peoplein quiet ways. You may notreceive popular
acclaim, or be honored by people, but you will be honored by Allah the
Most High. In the end, that is all that matters.

I am so glad I am a Mu’min (Believer). It is so easy to gain Thawab!

Easy to Get SAWAB
May this reach you in the best of health and strongest of Imaan.
I am so glad I am a Mu'min (Believer). It is so easy to gain Thawab!
01. I say a simple 'Salaam (Peace)' to someone (instead of 'Hi'), I am rewarded!
02. I smile at someone, I am rewarded!
03. I say, 'Sallallahu Alayhi Wa Aalihi Wasallam' every time I hear
the name of our Prophet, I am rewarded ten times for each one time!
04. I pray in Masjid, I am 27times rewarded.
05. If I could not go to Masjid, I pray with my family members (not
alone), I am 27 times rewarded.
06. I teach my children good, I am rewarded for allthat I teach, all
that they practice and for all who do the same looking at my kids!
07. I read a word of Qur'an,I get ten times reward for each letter of
that word! (How much reward if we read a few pages every day?)
08. I begin anything with 'Bismillah'. That action (good ones) of mine
is rewarded.
09. I grow beard, I get rewarded.
10. I wear abaya and my friends copy me, I get rewarded for myself and
for what they do!
11. I delete mails concerning immoral movies, film stars, etc; I amrewarded.
12. I 'think' of doing a gooddeed, I am rewarded.
13. I do that good deed, I am ten times rewarded!
14. I get Thawab for all thebad, un-Islamic programs I never see on TV.
15. I get rewarded for all the bad songs and music I never hear! (And
just think how many immoral songs are there today!)
16. I bother to read an Islamic message, I am rewarded.
17. I bother to send such a message, I am rewarded.
18. I get rewarded for all the people I send it to! (All I do is to 'click').
19. I get much more 'Thawab' if I act according to the message (after
confirming it's the truth).
20. If I bother to confirm, and find out if it's authentic, I get rewarded!
21. What if other people act according to what I sent? I get rewarded
for allgood they get rewarded for (life time reward!)
22. And what if those people forward it to other people and it goes
on? I keep getting reward for as long as it's circulated! (Reward even
after my death!)
23. Even if they just read and delete, I get rewarded!
24. I control my temper, I get rewarded.
25. I buy my kids chocolate, I get rewarded.
26. I buy a good Islamic cassette, I get rewarded.
27. We watch it together as a family, we get rewarded.
28. We act according to it, many, many times rewarded!
29. I fear Allah (SWT) and do not buy immoral film CDs, I am rewarded.
30. I do not go to Theatre to watch bad movies, I am rewarded.
31. I hold the glass with my right hand while drinking, I am rewarded.
32. I go shopping dressed in an Islamic and respectfulway, I get rewarded.
33. I go to school/college/ work in proper clothing (Islamic way), I
get rewarded as many times asall the male/female who do not cover
themselves properly!
34. I write this, I get rewarded.
35. You read this, you get rewarded.
36. You mail this to all, we all get rewarded! Subhanallah! The list goes on ...
See how easy it is to gain so much Thawab? As easy as it is to gain,
so easy is it to miss! You must know as you do, everything will be
(Insha Allah) rewarded. Nothing will go unseen.
I have only mentioned little things... Think of all the Thawab you
will (InshaAllah) get for praying, fasting, Hajj, Ziyarat, Charity,
preaching, spreading Islam ...? SUBHANALLAH!
GLORIFY ALLAH ALWAYS ...
Allahu Akbar!
Al-Hamdulillah!
Subhanallah!
:->

Don't Proud to be a Cheap one ... but You must be proud of Being a Pure Muslimah

Dear Muslimah ♥
Don't be proud of every guy wants you... Cheap items have many buyers...
Be a rare Stone that only the pious man can afford you , reach and get
you... asin a halal relationship , thatis Nikkah !!! In shaa ALLAH!!!
♥♥♥
Because you are not a toy piece for the playboys.... because they
spent some time with you and when they full fill their desires they
just leave you like a child do after playing with a toy... for a long
time and replace it with the new one......
Don't Proud to be a Cheap one ... but You must be proud of Being a
Pure Muslimah ♥♥♥

A story

An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house along with his
45 years old highly educated son. Suddenly a crow perched on their
window.
The father asked his son, 'What is this?'
The son replied, 'It is a crow'.
After a few minutes, the father asked his son the 2nd time, 'What is this?'
The son said, 'Father, I havejust now told you, It's a crow'.
After a little while, the old father again asked his son the 3rd time,
'What is this?'
At this time some expression of irritation wasfelt in the son's tone
when he said to his father with a rebuff. 'It's a crow, a crow'.
A little after, the father again asked his son the 4thtime, 'What is this?'
This time the son shouted at his father, 'Why do you keep asking me
the same question again and again, although I have told you somany
times 'IT IS A CROW'. Are you not able to understand this?'
A little later the father went to his room and cameback with an old
tattered diary, which he had maintained since his son was born. On
opening a page, he asked his son to read that page. When the son read
it, the following words were written in the diary:-
'Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when
a crow was sitting on the window.
My son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23
times that it was a crow.
I hugged him lovingly eachtime he asked me the samequestion again and
again for 23 times.
I did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child'.
While the little child asked him 23 times 'What is this?', the father
had felt noirritation in replying to the same question all 23 times
and when today the father asked his son the same question just 4
times, the son felt irritated and annoyed.
So....
If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as
a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble
and kind to them. Be considerate to your parents. From today say this
aloud, 'I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me
ever since I was a little child. They have always showered their
selfless love on me. They crossed all mountains and valleys without
seeing the storm and heat to make a person presentable in the society
today'.
Allah says:
Your Lord has enjoined the following: You should not worship anyone
but Him Alone! Treat your parents with great kindness; if either or
both of them attain old age, do not even say 'uff' to them; nor rebuke
them; but speak to them kind words. Treat them with humility and
tenderness and pray, "O our Lord, be merciful to them, just as they
brought me up with kindness and affection in my childhood."
Holy Quran Chapter 17 Surah Bani Israel verses 23-24/

Aspirin is as 'good as warfarin' for most heart failure patients: - By James Gallagher Health and science reporter, BBC News

Aspirin could be as effective as more expensive drugs for heartfailure
patients with a normal heart rhythm, according to researchers.
Their study on more than 2,000 patients, published in the New England
Journalof Medicine, said aspirin was as effective as the commonly
prescribed drug warfarin.
It said each drug had risks, but they had similar benefits overall.
However, a UK cardiologist argued the risks from warfarin were less serious.
Heart failure is a major health problem in many parts of the world. It
affects 900,000 people in the UK and six million people in the US. A
failing heart struggles to pump blood around the body, meaning even
trivial tasks become exhausting.
As the blood is not pumpedround the body as efficiently the risk of a
blood clot increases, if a clot blocks blood to parts of the brain it
will result in a stroke.
Aspirin vs warfarin
Patients are treated with drugs to reduce the risk of a fatal blood
clot forming. However, researchers said it was unknown whether aspirin
or warfarin was the better treatment in the 75% of heart failure
patients who still have a normal heart beat.
Researchers gave 2,305 patients, in 11 countries, either aspirin or warfarin.
Warfarin quite markedly reduces the risk of stroke associated with
heart failure compared with aspirin, but at a cost of an increase in
major haemorrhage"
Dr Andrew Clark
British Society for Heart Failure
The combined risk of death, stroke and major bleeding was the same for
each drug, according to theresearchers.
Patients taking warfarin had a much lower risk of stroke, but had a
high risk of bleeds. They said that after four years there was a"small
benefit" with warfarin, but it was"borderline" and of"uncertain
clinical significance".
They concluded: "There is no compelling reason to use warfarin rather
than aspirin".
The lead researcher, Dr Shunichi Homma, from the Columbia University
Medical Center, said: "Since the overall risks and benefits are
similar for aspirin and warfarin, the patient and his or her doctor
are free to choose the treatment that best meets their particular
medical needs.
"However, given the convenience and low cost of aspirin, many may go
this route."
Balancing risks
However, Dr Andrew Clark, from the British Society for Heart Failure
and the University of Hull, told the BBC: "The study shown here
demonstrates that warfarin quite markedly reduces the risk of stroke
associated with heart failure compared with aspirin, but at a cost of
an increase in major haemorrhage.
"How to interpret that for individual patients means weighing the risk
of stroke against the risk of haemorrhage, but also weighting that by
importance.
"I would regard a gastrointestinal haemorrhage requiring transfusion
as being of less importance than a stroke, so would tend in favour of
warfarin.
"I would be more inclined to prescribe warfarin than previously, but
the evidence is not overwhelming."
The British Heart Foundation said both warfarin and aspirin had risks
and benefits, but this study showed "neither has an advantage over the
other overall in preventing stroke or death in the long term."
Ellen Mason, a senior cardiac nurse at the charity,said: "This finding
should give patients reassurance when discussing their medication with
their heartfailure specialist, and more freedom to choose the
treatment which works best for them."
Dr Walter Koroshetz, who is the deputy director of the US National
Institute for Neurological Disorders and Stroke, said the study would
have "a large public health impact".
He added: "Patients and their physicians now have critical information
to help select the optimum treatment.
"The key decision will be whether to accept the increased risk of
stroke with aspirin, or the increased risk of primarily
gastrointestinal haemorrhage with warfarin."

What does the Quran say about Women's creation and purpose?

From a tiny drop that becomes an embryo, the girl-child is born to be
an honored part of God's plan.God states in the Muslim holy book, the
Qur'an:
"O humankind! Be conscious of your Lord Who created you from a single
soul, and out of it created its mate, and out of the two spread
countless men and women.Be conscious of your Lord through Whom you
demand your mutual rights and honor the wombs; God always watches over
you." (Qur'an 4:1)
According to the Qur'an, there was a Garden of Eden. There was a
forbidden tree, but no apple, no snake, and certainly no fault on Eve
alone. Both Adam and Eve sinned at the same time. They felt shame,
repented, and were forgiven together. God provided them with guidance,
showing them a way back to Him.
"Each soul earns on its ownaccount: and no bearer of burden shall bear
the burden of another." (Qur'an6:164)
"If any do deeds of righteousness, whether male or female, and have
faith, they will enter Paradise and not the least injustice will be
done to them." (Qur'an 4:124)
The sole purpose and existence of both men and women is to worship God
through faith and good deeds, fulfilling their role as God's honorable
trusteesand witnesses on this earth.
:->

A story - Never-Judge-Any one:

••• HEART TOUCHING STORY •••
A doctor entered the hospital in hurry after being called in for an
urgent surgery. He answered the call asap. Changed His Clothes & went
directly to the surgery block.
He found the boy's father pacing in the hall waiting for the doctor,
On seeing him, the dad yelled:
"Why did U take all this time to come? Don't you know my son's life is
in danger? Don't U have any sense of responsibility?
The doctor Smiled & said:
"I am sorry, I wasn't in the hospital & I came as fast as I could
after receiving to call...And NOW, I wish you'dcalm down so that I can
domy work"
"Calm down?! what if your son.. was in this room rightnow, would you
calm down? If your own son dies how what will U do??"said the father
angrily...
The doctor smiled again & replied: "I will say what ALLAH Subhana
Watala saidin the Qur'an {From it we created you and into it we shall
send you back and from it will we raise you a second time}
[Qur'an 20:55].
DOCTORS cannot prolong lives, Go & intercede for your son we will do
our best by ALLAH Subhana Watala will"
"Giving advises when we'renot concerned is so easy" Murmured the father.
The surgery took some hours after which the doctor went out happy.
ALLHUM DU LILLAH!, Your son is saved!" And without waiting for the
father's reply he carried on his way running. "If U have any Question,
Ask the horse!!"
"WHY is he so arrogant? Hecouldn't wait some minutes so that I ask
aboutmy son's state" (commented the father when seeing the hrs minutes
after the doctor left.
The nurse answered, tears coming down her face: "Hisson died yesterday
in a road accident, He was in the burial when we called him for your
son's surgery. And now that he saved your son's life he left running
to finish his son's burial."

Moral ♥ : Never-Judge-Any one
:->

AL-WADUD - The Loving: He is the Ever-Forgiving, the All-Loving . ( Surat al-Buruj, 85:14)

AL-WADUD - The Loving
He is the Ever-Forgiving, the All-Loving . ( Surat al-Buruj, 85:14)
Those people who understand that Allah created humanity to serve Him
remain sincere to Him until they die, while others deny His existence.
Allah is very close to His loyal servants. He hears and answers their
prayers, is with them whenever they encounter a difficulty, and
supports them at every stage of their lives.
One of the greatest blessings that people may attain in this life is
Allah's love and friendship. Allah's beloved servants lead honorable
and distinguished lives, and their moral perfection always earns great
admiration and appreciation. He admits Hisbeloved servants into His
mercy and lets them enter Paradise . Prophets and sincere believers
are very valuable people who have earned Allah's love, love Allah, and
lead their lives only to earn His good pleasure.
Ask your Lord for forgiveness, and then repent to Him. My Lord is Most
Merciful, Most Loving. (Surah Hud, 11:90)